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I work every weekday, I get up at 7:45 to get ready and sort out my 4 year old, I then leave for work at half 8 waking my partner to tell him I’m off and our child is downstairs so it’s time to get up (if our daughter isn’t awake I’ll leave him to sleep in as he DOESN’T WORK). Every day I get back home and find an absolute state! Apart from half the dishes being done! Yes, only half for some reason. His excuse is that he hasn’t got the time to do any cleaning! Even though I somehow manage to juggle our child and the cleaning when I get home (because he still doesn’t do anything when I’m home)! I get severe back pains and have DVT in my leg so I’m constantly in pain and also been advised not to work by the doctor, but obviously with him not working I have no choice. I get no help what so ever, his mum never bothers with our daughter and I have no family so I NEVER get a break. I literally feel like he couldnt give a shit, I’ve even had suicidal thoughts that I spoke to him about it as it’s him causing them and still I get no help! This has been going on now for quite some time and it’s seriously getting me down because I know im going to end up crippled if I’m left to do everything my self but he just doesn’t seem to care and just gets angry when I try and speak to him. Literally he shows me no respect at all, shouts at me, gives me dirty looks, smashes thing up! I really dont want to end our relationship but I know he won’t change. (He has no disabilities or anything stopping him from working, he just doesn’t want to.) Anyone else been in a similar situation? Am I over thinking it all?
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Opinions please. I work every weekday, I get up at 7:45 to get ready and sort o…
