Opinions please. I work every weekday, I get up at 7:45 to get ready and sort o…
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I work every weekday, I get up at 7:45 to get ready and sort out my 4 year old, I then leave for work at half 8 waking my partner to tell him I’m off and our child is downstairs so it’s time to get up (if our daughter isn’t awake I’ll leave him to sleep in as he DOESN’T WORK). Every day I get back home and find an absolute state! Apart from half the dishes being done! Yes, only half for some reason. His excuse is that he hasn’t got the time to do any cleaning! Even though I somehow manage to juggle our child and the cleaning when I get home (because he still doesn’t do anything when I’m home)! I get severe back pains and have DVT in my leg so I’m constantly in pain and also been advised not to work by the doctor, but obviously with him not working I have no choice. I get no help what so ever, his mum never bothers with our daughter and I have no family so I NEVER get a break. I literally feel like he couldnt give a shit, I’ve even had suicidal thoughts that I spoke to him about it as it’s him causing them and still I get no help! This has been going on now for quite some time and it’s seriously getting me down because I know im going to end up crippled if I’m left to do everything my self but he just doesn’t seem to care and just gets angry when I try and speak to him. Literally he shows me no respect at all, shouts at me, gives me dirty looks, smashes thing up! I really dont want to end our relationship but I know he won’t change. (He has no disabilities or anything stopping him from working, he just doesn’t want to.) Anyone else been in a similar situation? Am I over thinking it all?
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I’m sorry but until you know your self worth you’ll be stuck in this rut forever….leave him. I can only be brutal because I’ve been here and done that. we are independent women if he isn’t picking you up and making your life happier why is he even in It?
Yeah I’ve been in similar situations with my kids Dad. Short story, we were separated for 3 years, got back together, had another child and now split again, as I just couldn’t cope looking after him and our 3 boys. It’s a shame, there’s still a lot of feelings there but, for now at least, it’s for the best.
You need to tell him straight …step up or step out ,you haven’t got time for that shit ,he’s a waste of space and bringing you down ,you and your daughter deserve better x
Honey…why have a dog when you can bark yourself!.
Unconditional love doesnt exist in human love!…its pretty obvious you need to stop the masochistic behavior and show him the door! 😇😇
I feel like im in the same boat here, my partner is so lazy. Never cooks, cleans or helps out, he doesnt have a job either which im so peed off about but i know exactly what your going through, if you want a chat. Message me ☺
The only good bit of advice you need to hear is LEAVE HIM! People like that never change. I know it’s not what you want to hear but you have no other option he obviously wont change and if you stay you will just be depressed and you will be like that until the day you leave his mooching ass! Sending positive thoughts 💭 xx
Get rid. He won’t change. You’re doing everything on your own anyway so won’t make a difference really. If anything, the only difference will be less mess to go home to as no one will be there all day x
To be honest get rid of your boyfriend. He sounds like a using bum.
Your better of on your own! I’d kick him out x
He sounds like a waster fuck him out