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PPP. Ladies I need your opinions please. I’ve been with my partner 2.5years …

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PPP.

Ladies I need your opinions please.

I’ve been with my partner 2.5years now and have a 1year together. When we met he was still married but separated.

He kept saying he’d get divorced when he got the money. On a few occasions he has had the money to do this but has spent it on other things such as a second hand car. I let this go, and thought I’ll give him some more time. He came into money YET again… no divorce.

So here’s the thing, he’s on better money now (job wise)and is able to save and put money aside, so we had a conversation last night and I wasn’t going to bring up the divorce and all I said was ‘what will you be saving for’… his reply was, ‘I know what YOU want me to save it for’….. it’s like he can’t be arsed.

How can we have a future together if he keeps saying he doesn’t want to waste money on paper (divorce)…

I wanted a wedding and one more child and after our baby was born he spoke about getting the snip (to me, this means he doesn’t want any more, doesn’t it)
And in our argument last night he said I never said I didn’t want anymore…. to me the SNIP means you don’t want any…

Sorry for rant but I’m feeling stuck and unhappy.

What do you ladies make of all this, what would you do and how would you feel?? Xxx
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