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Can I have a ppp as its a sorta private family matter so I dont want it traced b…

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Can I have a ppp as its a sorta private family matter so I dont want it traced back to me but need advice what to do..
My grandfather is rich, he has a gf and he has 3 daughter’s and 5 grandchildren (me being one), daughter A is very involved however, she he is the ‘bank of dad’ literally, if anyone asks for money or suggests it then she goes mad because she believes its hers, she has had horses (she only spoke to him since he brought her a horse about 6 years ago, before that she didnt like him), two holidays to America and she took a loan out to go to Canada and was so mad he didnt even suggest he would pay for it..Daughter B ‘borrowed’ money and refused to pay it back and gave half to her mother (my grandmother) and Daughter C wont even speak his name and hate his guts, my grandmother has started sniffing around him aswell (he isnt in the best of health)..I would say my grandfather and me get on well, we talk about the family tree and work on it together, he shows me all the photos and we have a bond whereas the others dont and ofcourse Ive never ever asked or even been given money..I want to ask him if he has a will that is what he wants (I dont want to know details or who gets what but just that things are in place), DA believes she will inherit everything because she is next to kin (so she says) whereas it doesnt work like that which she flipped about (he told her there is no will), grandmother has flipped because DA said she will not share anything with DB and DC and tbh I dont care if I dont inherit anything however I dont want my grandfather’s passing to be a huge fight over the money, I dont believe any of them should inherit anything besides his long term gf but its down to him, I want to ask him does he have a will but I feel wrong to ask, I do not expect anything but Im worried about him, I feel like he is being used and it isnt fair but I dont want him to think Im after anything as Im not😔 I just dont want everything to be about his money the older he gets, his gf has two disabled children who have to live in care homes, his gf has MS to, Im worried they wont even get alook in because of the others😓
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