Could you please post anon for me. My partner and i have been together for 7 ye…

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Could you please post anon for me.

My partner and i have been together for 7 years and have 3 children together. He never helps with the children, housework or anything else. He works 4 days a week.
I have my friend staying over at the moment and she was talking to my partner, and he said to her that he knows he puts too much pressure on me with the children and housework, he said he knows he doesnt do anything around the house and he never changes nappies.
Before that conversation i genuinely believed that he just didnt understand or was too ignorant to see how much pressure is on me. But he knows full well how hard it is for me looking after 3 children all day, two of which are full of attitude and dont listen to a thing i say and one who is 1 and currently either very clingy and in pain with teething, or at other times getting into everything, then cleaning, washing, dishes, lunches, more cleaning then dinner, bathtime and bedtime is all left up to me. He knows this apparently and yet he does nothing to help. He acknowledged that he could be doing some more around the house but he just doesnt want to after coming home from work at 4pm 4 days a week.
Im at my wits end. I love my partner and my children. Ive tried talking to him so so many times about this. We’ve been to councilling about this. Nothing is getting through to him. I do not want to leave him but i dont know what to do anymore. When i ask him for help he gets an attitude and carries on like the world is ending and i end up doing it all myself anyway. Its like i have 4 children. The children behave for him most of the time, I’ve tried leaving him with the kids for a few days while i went to visit a friend, hoping he would get some idea about how hard it is for me, but apparently the kids were well behaved for him. I dont know what to do anymore 😭😭
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