Am I being unreasonable my partner rang earlier and said I’m having the kids ( from a previous) for tea & I said that’s fine but can you take them back before 7 as we have to go to the church to pay the rest of our wedding off. & he said no they can come & I said no because my nan & grandad are coming for tea & there coming to the church as there paying for it for us! & he said well I did tell you which he did not untill today he said he was going to see them but not having them for tea as he’s been arguing with there mother about picking up and dropping off. So I said we’ll go and see them for an hour & then we will have them for tea tomorrow with his other daughter & he’s calling me a selfish spiteful bitch agggghhhhhhh he new about the church for ages I’m sooo fumin right now I don’t think I’m being unreasonable! But I don’t want to drag me him 3 kids my nan& grandad to the church. I duno if it’s my hormones cus I’m 14 weeks pregnant but I am actually raging! I bend over backwards for his kids always look after them when he’s working I get no thanks nothing & im a spitful selfish bitch.