Hi all, need some advice.. I have 3 amazing step children (10,8,5) who I love to the moon, I also have a baby girl with their daddy who is 11 weeks. Since we got pregnant we did all we could to involve the children, took them to scans, let them tell family about the pregnancy help with name etc etc, I think we also try now to involve them with everything and make sure they get time with daddy 1:1 too. Recently 5yo lg has been having huge tantrums, screaming shouting she hates us etc which we are hoping is a phase but on Sunday 8 yo lb took £20 that was on the side in the kitchen…he lied about it until we took his Xbox tonight and he told the truth, we haven’t shouted or ranted but he doesn’t seem to see the seriousness?! We moved to a bigger house before baby came and he has his own room with Xbox etc and the girls have the master bedroom to share (with ensuite!!!) while my partner and I have a smaller room with baby currently. We have the older 3 3 or 4 days a week and 3 over nights a fortnight (we are all nurses so works around shifts) My partner is heartbroken at what is going on lately and we are at a loss as where we go from here..thank you if you have got this far..please give me your thoughts!!