Advice please, sorry for long post. I’ve a really good friend, we live in the s…
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Advice please, sorry for long post.
I’ve a really good friend, we live in the same area and our daughters are close in age and get on really well.
We have different parenting styles I have rules in my house not crazy ones, I just expect manners, no lies, no shouting or hitting and generally do as you are told.
She has absolutely no rules her daughter is out of control, she slaps, punches, spits, screams and demands constantly, she is nearly 5. My friend gives her everything she asks for.
I’ve been trying to teach my child that you have to behave to get treats and that you cannot have everything you want.
I’m really struggling because her daughter is here everyday behaving like a complete brat and getting everything she demands.
I’ve tried explaining to mine that people won’t like you if you behave this way but at such a young all she cares about is that her friend gets everything.
I have tried saying it to my friend but I get no where she doesn’t see a problem. I really don’t want my daughter playing with hers due to her behaviour but I don’t want to loose my friend. Please help
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In our house we have the rule that states basically our house rules apply to everyone in it not just our own kids. If our friends don’t say no then I will. If their kids misbehave they get the same treatment as mine would. I’ve had people who disagree with it and dont come round but most people are perfectly fine with it and understand that we don’t want our children not following our rules just because their friends dont.
Your house your rules, just explain that to your friend she should respect that to be honest.