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Afternoon just me again, can you pp to the right page please I feel like the …

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Afternoon just me again, can you pp to the right page please 💜

I feel like the doctors and my midwife don’t care at all (before anyone judges I was on the depo when I feel pregnant) my partner is amazing he works 4 nights a week 12 hour shifts and is the only one there for me we have 3 children already one of my boys have behaviour problems is diognosed autism & learning dealys, I’m currently 20weeks pregnant with baby 4 though it was a surprise I’m happy about it, but the amount of stress I’m under is unbelievable I have a autistic child he can be loving one min and nocking 10 bales out of me the next every day is hard with him witch every auty mum will no he has meltdowns non stop most days getting him in to his car seat for school is hard he hits and kicks driving to school we have to stop about 6 times as he u clips his seat going into school it’s like a game of cat and mouse he runs off hides in bushes ext on the way back from school same thing at home is hard he’s got a low attention span and can’t focus on a task for more then 5 mins so keeping entertained is full on he’s not interested in ipads ext so that’s out of the question he has a lack of understanding so it makes it more difficult for him so he lashes out more iv been told I now have SPD in this pregnancy and I’m really struggling mainly with his lash outs as most times I have to restrain him and I physically can’t any more he’s hurting me witch will obv be affecting the baby my stress is on another level lately I used to cope quite well but now i feel like I’m losing it slowly because I physically can’t keep up with him atm I’ve tried telling my doctor and midwife and there basically like we’ll you have to get on with it but surly there must be some help? Surly my unborn baby is suffering in some from with the stress and the the times my son managed to get near my belly lashing out? I just need advice on how to manage this 😭 (we have flash cards ext ext but because of his understanding there not really effective)
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