Can I get a PPP? Okay so my partner has 2 kids from a previous relationship,we …

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Can I get a PPP?

Okay so my partner has 2 kids from a previous relationship,we have 1 daughter together and another one the way. We’ve been together just under 3 years, engaged and moving into our new family home together. So my question is what would use do in th situation?

My partners ex has been a right pain from the minute we have got together. She’s never liked me but I’ve never given her a reason not to like me other than be with my partner. Anyway so over the past year my partners been to court with her due to her stopping contact on the pure basis of his 3 year old now 4 year old and 5 year old now 6 year old “didn’t want to go to daddys” we have my partners kids every other weekend Friday through until Sunday this has been the arrangement for over 3 years now. When the kids are with us they seem to really enjoy themselves; we do arts and crafts, go to the park, go on day trips, visit family, they spend quality time with their sister, we paint nails and do hair, they get treated like royalty at our house.

Last year his ex went for a residency order because she was in a hostel with the 2 kids and was pregnant with someone else’s baby. So us being us allowed her to get it in writing that she had the kids full time so she would get a house on the grounds that we would still get our 2 weekends a month and the kids were in a suitable living environment with her. Now she’s still in a hostel a year later and has started causing trouble again. We haven’t saw the kids in coming 2 months and her excuse is “because they don’t want to go to daddys” my partner still texts every weekend we are suppose to have them to see if he is getting the kids and her answer is always the same. She tried changing our contact arrangement from every 2nd weekend to every weekend. One week being friday until satirday afternoon and the next being saturday evening until sunday lunchtime. Which just isn’t possible as this is cutting our contact time down by nearly 10 hours and it means we can’t physically go anywhere with the kids because by the time we get home from collecting them and get dinner it’s bath and bedtime.

We go above and beyond to please her just so we can see them we take the kids extra over the school holidays and my partner has used all his work holidays on taking the kids extra this year which meant he couldnt come to our first scan and by dropping them off wherever she wants them dropped off bare in mind a set meeting place was put in place by court.

My partner has always paid maintance and wouldn’t have it any other way as he should be contributing to his kids. But anyway last week my partner text at 1 o’clock in the after noon she got back straight away and she they don’t want to go. Now the kids are both in school until 2 o’clock so how is it possible for her to even had asked them? My partner can’t ring her to speak to the kids because she kicks off and starts an argument every time.

We do have a solicitor on the case since the last court appearance but nothings working 😞

Anyone been in a similar situation what did you do? And did it eventually work out?

I just really needed a rant it probably doesn’t make sense but my partner is absolutely heart broken not being able to see his own children and it breaks my heart my daughter and I are missing out on vital bonding with them as well before another new baby comes. I love the kids like they are my own and they get treated and are lived like my own. I just wish we could have regular contact with the kids 😟 we miss them dearly.
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