Can I have a p.p please. I’ve been with my man for 10 years, the first 7 of wh…
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Can I have a p.p please.
I’ve been with my man for 10 years, the first 7 of which we had not so much as a cross word. 2 children later, we have been through huge domestic abuse, constant arguments, and post natal depression. It is a year since he last laid a finger on me but I feel like all he tries to do is put me down. I really struggle in the morning with tiredness from getting up with my 3 year old daughter at night and it does stress me out. Their dad is saying I’m horrid to the kids… I’m not, I just have strong beliefs as to what is and isn’t acceptable behaviour. Recently my son has started slamming doors and screaming/swearing at me. His dad says he never does this to him, or hitting his sister. I tried to explain i think its due to the dv theyve witnessed. He then went on to say it must be me filling them with anxiety as I’m so uptight. I said I felt he turned everything on me all the time. We haven’t had a relationship in months, we agreed to try again but I just wait on edge for him to flip out again. He says he won’t as he is on beta blockers!! He even said he thinks I’ve split personality disorder … apparently I don’t behave round anyone else like this. Why can’t he see the reason I am as I am and won’t have the kids behaving like that is because I don’t want them being like him!! When I try to say something he says he will leave then… but when I kicked him out he wouldn’t leave me alone. I don’t know what to think!!!
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