Can I have a post please? My cousin who I’m close to & my best friend are in the…

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Can I have a post please? My cousin who I’m close to & my best friend are in the same situation & have both confided in me & I have no idea what to do. They are both pregnant. My friend has 4 kids & my cousin has 2. The kids father’s have not helped out or stuck around so they are both struggling alone. Although, I help out as much as they need me to. Their kids get love my 1 year old so it’s all good. They both don’t want to tell the father that they are pregnant & don’t know whether to abort their babies or not. I think he deserves to know, whatever they decide. My friend is coming round to the idea of involving her man. But my cousin is dead against because he hurt her by leaving her. The thing is my cousin is older, the guy she’s slept with was my friend in school. She’s been sleeping around since splitting with her kids dad & she’s caused so many arguments in the village we live. She’s slept with a lot of my friends from school & a lot of my neighbours. She has a name for herself. I have tried to tell her what she is doing is wrong as she could get hurt but she’s so adamant she doesn’t care as long as she has her men to sleep with. I want her to tell the dad & I wish she would stop sleeping about. I’m trying to offer her advice but I just don’t know how to help her anymore. I feel like an awful person. 😔
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