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Can I have a post please…

Please someone tell me if I am being over the top or if I’m right to be absolutely furious. I’ll start from why it has upset me so much, and go into detail about what’s happened so it may be a long one! Sorry!!

Basically I have been with my partner 2 years, we have a baby due in 9 weeks time. I have a 4 year old (not his) and he has a 2 year old from his ex. His ex split up with him just after she had his daughter and not long after me and him started speaking, meeting and eventually got together, there has been issues from the start as he obviously wanted to be with his newborn daughter so was trying to get back with her whilst with me, this went on for months and I eventually found out and we had a break, but ended up back together on the terms it would never happen again…. as far as I am aware since this point he has been completely faithful. They have had a rocky 2 years, going through court etc, he got given his access last year and gradually she (his ex) has tried to worm her way between us. We have just come back from our first family holiday and as soon as we came back she was texting him saying things like – I feel like I’ve got so much to say but don’t know if it’s worth it now, asking to meet with him and his daughter and I am livid. Today he has gone to meet his ex and his daughter, I feel like a total mug and feel like there probably going to end up back together as why would anyone if they already have a family with anyone else go and do that! She is also with someone else but seems to be craving what I have and trying to ruin it and because he wants to see his daughter as much as he can he bows down to her. I’ve finished with him because I can’t have him playing happy families with someone else. He knew how I felt about this, I asked him to compromise with me and let me and my daughter be involved but nope. I feel like I’m never enough, he always wants more and now he’s going to miss out on being a family bringing up his new born baby as a family for the sake of playing happy families with someone else! I feel like I hate him and there’s no going back now. Sorry for the massive rant I need it off my chest and to know I’m not being stupid!
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