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Can I have a pp on any of the pages please, Sorry ppl this is a long one, so he…

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Can I have a pp on any of the pages please,
Sorry ppl this is a long one, so here goes I live with my two kids, there dad and I separated a few years ago but kept a good relationship for the weans sakes, anyways there dad liked a good drink I mean this guy could drink morning noon night no matter what if he could get his hands on it he would have it, he made our life’s hell!
One of the reasons for the separation, after the separation we got on with our life’s met new people and so on! Things never ever worked out tho! Fast forward a few year we became rather close again he hadn’t touched a drink in four years was the guy I fell for so we gave us another go!! What a big mistake it’s been he gave up his house and practically moved in told him to wait and see how things go first anyways he’s back on the drink he doesn’t help with any bills leaves me with everything (it’s my house ) y should he pay he’s never helped with birthday xmas presents I work full time so he’s ment to care for the kids while I’m there I’ve had to phone family to take over because he’s not fit to do so, when he’s no drinking he’s such a nice person a guy anyone would love around but now I can’t take any more I’m loosing the will, if I even walk my kids to school I get bombed with texts calls saying I’m taken to long I’ve got to be in the house all the time I’m not aloud to sit with friends at there house because seemingly I drop my knickers for anyone (I’ve never cheated) I really can’t do it any more I’m sitting wishing I wasn’t here anymore I just don’t know what to do obviously I’m no going to do anything stupid because of the kids but how do I get around this when he now has no where to go! And yeah I’m soft hearted but can’t live like this sorry just need some advice x
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  • I would highly recommend joining a freedom group it helps with this and makes u a wiser person to mental emotional physical financial abuse etc etc I’m currently attending and tbh the best thing I’ve done. Poster feel free to pm me x

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  • I think for the sake of ur sanity u need to get him out, the council will put him in homeless accommodation so o send him there tomorrow or if can tolerate him til Mon, he’s not being fair at all n needs a shock to stop the drinkn & he’s controlling x

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