Can I have a pp please. I need advice, no bashing please. Me and my partner are …
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Can I have a pp please. I need advice, no bashing please. Me and my partner are just not happy any more. It is more me who is unhappy than him. We barely have conversations any more, day in day out I feel like we are just in the same house but strangers. He used to make me laugh all the time, be really affectionate etc. I have had multiple talks with him about how I feel that he just doesn’t love me any more and I feel like he makes zero effort with me as he doesn’t even know what to say to me half the time. Every time I get upset and tell him how I feel that I’m unhappy and I love him to death and he is my best friend and I just want him to make more of an effort, he says he will and he does for all of a couple of days. It just isn’t enough for me any more there isn’t any affection or conversation I feel like we don’t even know each other. I feel like we are just together for the sake of being together. He says he loves me and wants a future with me but I just don’t see one with him any more as he just isn’t making me happy any more. NO NEGATIVE COMMENTS PLEASE as I’m upset even writing this, everyone I have spoken to has said to just end it but as I’m sure you can understand it is just so hard. Nothing majorly bad has happened, it wouldn’t end on bad terms so it makes it even harder to just let go. He is everything to me my best friend and I love him so much. I just feel like he is never going to change, the spark has gone and he will not admit it. He just says he will make more effort an it’s back to square one. Please help, am I wrong for wanting more in life? I feel like I have just settled for him but this isn’t what I want. I have just gotten so used to having him I will be lost without him, which is why it’s so hard to let go. What should I do???? Have I fallen out of love? Should I stay?? 😞 I am at a loss. An yes I HAVE spoken to him about all of this he is fully aware of how I feel all the time but still no improvement in how he is towards me. Thanks xx
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