Can I have a PPP Am I in a controlling relationship?? Lately I have been begin…
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Can I have a PPP
Am I in a controlling relationship??
Lately I have been beginning to realize a few things in my relationship,, my partner is a little controlling am not aloud to get a little part time job he says I need to be at home looking after him and our 2 year old he makes good money so o don’t need to ,, am not aloud to go out with my friends if I mention going for a coffee with a friend he goes mad saying I have to take our 2 year old he won’t look after him alone not even for 30mins I have to have his breakfast ready and the house clean before he gets up the other day I cooked it and had to go out after and he began sending me pics of how Discusting his food was when there was nothing wrong with it he won’t cook anything for himself or do anything for himself if I was out he would keep ringing me telling me to return home to coon for him ,, my sisters birthday is coming up soon and I felt like I had to ask his permission to go and I did and he said that he had plans and I would have to stay home with our child he’s been out 3 times this week with friends drinking and I have to ask his permission to go out on a night out ,, he always says that I do t clean the house good enough and I need to do a better job with everything also if I wear fake tan he goes crazy insulting me telling me I look stupid,, if we are talking about something nothing I say matters everything I say is wrong because am stupid and Nothing I say is right ,, I know there’s a lot of different relationships but is this normal behavior I feel like am a idiot following his orders
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Get out now before the controlling turns into more than just emotional abuse.. the bloke sounds like an ass. And no one needs that shit you deserve more!! X
That’s not a little controlling Hun that’s controlling every aspect of your life! No one in their right mind would be happy living like that. You need to leave like now it will only get worse he will promise to change but won’t you might feel sad or alone but soon enough you’ll feel happy and have freedom and realise how unhappy you were before.
No, don’t let someone treat you like that he is your sons dad he should be looking after him as well. I don’t get men who think they can tell a woman what to do, and as for calling you names well on that is just cruel and unkind. You should never have time ask for permission to do anything tell him to make his own meals and clean the house especially if he also lives there. Tell him to wise up and act more like a dad and start treating you with some respect after all you deserve a break and deserve to have a good time and let your hair down. Go and have fun leave him to watch your son it’s only fair and don’t be afraid to speak your mind your just as important. Xx
If you didn’t think it was controlling you wouldn’t ask. You already answered your question..
If your friend or daughter said this to you what would you tell them?
Sounds very controlling but don’t be hard on yourself for not recognising it as most if not all controlling behaviour is done over time and in such a manipulative way that it’s hard to see it and has you questioning whether it’s really bad or not? which you are doing now. You’re starting to realise it now and that’s your first step it’s not easy to just leave as everyone is saying it takes time and planning and support. X
Sorry to say Girl but your being treated like a mug! Xx
Get out 😞
Run 🏃
Hell no tell that boy BYE…
Get out now!!!!
Why on earth are you still with him x