Can I have a ppp? (Dont want to post as people know on here) Just wondered if a…
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Can I have a ppp? (Dont want to post as people know on here)
Just wondered if anyone had any confident advice? I am 25 years old and Ive lost all confidences😥 I dress in my partner’s old tops, I hate doing nursery run as I feel like I get judged because Im not in cute clothes, I hate the way I do my makeup and no matter what I do it becomes an oily mess and then I break out, I even had my hair done at the salon and I still dont feel better..I cant even take a selfie anymore let alone a family photo😥😥😥😥 Before my son I was alot slimmer and went to the gym, was social but even though my son is nearly 4 I jusy half the time dont have the energy for the gym and eat crap because I feel to down (Im strict with my son and his diet but he eats earlier then us)..Sorry for tmi but even having sex is just awful now, I do not want to be looked at, I feel disgusting and awkward to the point I am nearly crying and have to stop (he doesnt focus me or anything btw, if anything its me that wants it but when it happens like my mind and body just dont)!
Im getting married next year and Im so worried it will effect my wedding, Ive already called it off and changed it in the past because of it all😔
I know I am not depressed either
Tia🌸
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I know how you feel, I have been there, and it’s OK to feel this way I think every women does at some point especially after having children, I went on to over work myself and lost a lot of weight mainly by not eating but I lost weight (not saying this is right) but even wen I was slim I still wasn’t right but as much as I thought I’m fine everyone around me knew I wasn’t, if you weren’t like this before then you need to work out why you are now if that makes any sense, my mum made me go to the doctor she came with me I explained near enough the same as you and the doctor offered me anti depressants which I turned down…twice with 2 different doctors I felt ashamed like I was admitting I couldn’t cope and I was unhappy like some kind of person who just gives up, in the end I spoke to my partner and after lots of opening up and lots of tears we decided that perhaps it’s maybe best just to try a very low dose at first and see how I get on and it has changed my life, I won’t be on these forever but it helps me to be myself again, I don’t tell people I’m on them they don’t need to know but I am me again. Go to see your doctor explain how you feel you don’t even have to take tablets just talk to them, open up to your partner if he loves you he will understand but it will help you find you again. I hope your ok x