Can I have a ppp on the bumps scan page x Stressed! 21 Single mum to a 2 year o…

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Can I have a ppp on the bumps scan page x

Stressed! 21 Single mum to a 2 year old, 8 weeks pregnant to different dad. He swept me off my feet and I just went for it with him he was so different and got pregnant first time we had sex, I was tracking cycle so my fertile week was a whole week before so didn’t think I’d get pregnant at all looking back was naive. Anyway things got intense fast esp being pregnant he was staying over im cooking his breakfast dinner etc it was just too much too soon and we keep having same argument about same things so I said let’s call it a day for now. That was just over a week ago and he’s totally changed saying he doesn’t feel anything atm for me or baby, he doesn’t want a baby anymore and doesn’t want me to keep it. It’s really getting me down as everytime we sort things out he’s back then next day he starts the same abortion arguement with me telling me he’s stressed too much going on blah blah and I’m being selfish. Had private scan on sat baby is 8 weeks and lovely heartbeat etc and makes it all more real and he still after telling him and showing him the pic talking about me not keeping it. The annoying thing is he’s not going to walk out from his child he’s not like that he already has a child he’s a good dad too so it’s like why are you making things bad between us when all I’ve done is be fair and leave the door open to him but I feel like if this continues by the time he realises that I’m having this baby I’m to going to want him involved in the pregnancy. Just don’t know what to do atm feeling super stressed, also would I be wrong to give the baby my surname? My son has my name as dad is not involved at all(due to dv) and I would like my children to have same name plus we’ve both established I will be the primary carer as he works a lot and is always busy, he was cool with this then all of a sudden he wants it to have his name😩 not into double barrelling so what should I do?
Thanks, can I add also my other worry is that as my kids have different dads thats it for me as I’ve always said I wouldn’t have a 3rd dad but I’m so young feels like my life is over and sometimes feel like my life is over and that I don’t want the baby cause of all the stress I’m being caused 😭
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