can I have a ppp x am I being mentally abused? my ex texts me every day from t…
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can I have a ppp x
am I being mentally abused?
my ex texts me every day from the min he wakes (about 12 to sometimes 3am) he asks how the children are. he text me accusing me of talking to his friends. he accused me of being a rubbish mum, of stopping him seeing his children, he calls me all names under the Sun, he says I’m controlling and jealous
He texts me he loves me, he misses me, he says I’m a good mum. he tells everyone I am a bitch he keeps telling me to bring the kids to see him then gets his family to start on me . his new gf threaten to hit me yesterday saying I’m harassing them.
I can’t win. one min he’s normal and we get on the next things are a mess …. help please I’m so confused
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Yes you are. I am experiencing the same. I have learnt to ignore it, it isn’t easy but he no longer deserves my time. It should only be about the children now but all these selfish nobs think about is themselves excuse the language! By the sounds of it you’re lucky he is you’re ex, good on you!! Stay strong and leave them to lead their pathetic lives. If he just wants to harras you rather than actually ask about child he is a grade a bellend. Do not tolerate it. X
Any horrid messages he sends you keep them, don’t reply to any of his messages unless they are about the children don’t enter into dispute about anything else, record everything you don’t have in a txt i.e. threats then wait say 3 months and gather some evidence and go to a lawyer and ask for an injunction on the grounds of harassment and verbal abuse and that he only contacts you regarding your children do not put up with that any longer x be strong x
i had this some years ago and it resulted in the x getting his conact stopped from the court. i had to result to getting a second phone one just so he could text me
Yes you are. You are the mother of his kids he shouldn’t be treating you this way. Tell him contact Will only be about the kids and that’s it
Just ignore him. Don’t reply, don’t give him the satisfaction. Sounds like he’s playing mind games with himself and you.
Read your own posts again but this time as if this was your best friend telling all this. I think u know what answer u would give. And also the advice you would give x
Please look up narcissist and gaslighting .. everything will become a lot clearer for you.
Yes you are. My ex did exactly he same to me. Break personal contact and either do contact centre or through a mutual friend x
Omg sounds exactly like my ex.. I’ve recently had to cut all contact fir my own sanity and tge kids.
Keep a record of all messages he’s sending & report it to the police …..
Block his number or change yours. Only contact him regarding the children and do it from a with held number.
Delete his number or get a new phone , also log this with the police as it’s harassment from him to you , x
Don’t text him back unless it’s about the kids he doesn’t need to know the ins and out of your life x
Block his number and ignore him hopefully he will get bored sounds like hes got personality disorder or summat
Sounds like my ex bi polor
Block his number, you and your children deserve better than that x
Ad simply change ur number u don’t need it.