Can I have a ppp So I am leaving my partner- we have spoke about it but he gets …
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Can I have a ppp
So I am leaving my partner- we have spoke about it but he gets all aggressive and defensive and then starts being all nice again. I have found a house and got the keys- my question is do I tell him I am moving out tomorrow so that he can kick off and not go to work and cause trouble or do I just move out whilst he’s at work?
Reason for leaving him is emotional and mental abuse towards myself and my son (not his dad) plus I just don’t love him anymore because of how he makes us feel. I’m thinking I should just move tomorrow to make it as easy and calm for my kids as possible. But then I also feel guilty for him coming home from work to an empty house and us gone. He knows I am ‘looking’ for a house but doesn’t think I will move.
What would you all do?
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Can you comment on my post please do Chloe that we do have a 1 year old together
I wouldn’t say anything and I would leave while he is at work so he can’t stop you . Then maybe leave him a letter on the top so he knows your gone but do not tell him where you have moved too under any circumstance you don’t need to be in contact with him use have no children together just cut all ties. Good luck 😘xx
Go tomorrow and don’t say as you said he will kick off and anything could happen go with your kids and get a fresh start x that’s what I would do if that was me but some people may have another opinion x
If there’s any chance of violence etc do it when he’s working leave him a letter explaining things . Do not give him your new address xx
Don’t tell him cause he will kick off like you said or be nice and persuade you to stay. You know what you gotta do that’s why you have found yourselves a new home xx
Say nothing and just move. If you feel guilty about anything, maybe you could write him a letter for when he comes in x
Move out while he’s at work,things could get nasty otherwise.
Leave while at work. Could end badly otherwise xx
Just leave. He’ll figure it out. No need to start fighting when u don’t have to
I’d go while at work to avoid any conflict in front of the kids good luck in your new home xxx
Don’t say anything and don’t feel bad for him feel proud for putting ur sons needs before his xx
I’d move n say nothing ..goodluck xx
Leave whilst he is at work x
Run girl u get one life x
Yeah just leave x