Can I have a private posit please. Not baby related but is family related. My hu…
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Can I have a private posit please.
Not baby related but is family related.
My husband had a friend before we got married that came inbetween us as he had an unhealthy obsession with my partner. Constantly around, ringing, texting, online video chats, up all night with each other until 4/5am several times a week.
We had just had a baby and had a 4 year old. I was breast feeding our youngest after having a section and soon realised I had postnatal depression. I remember sitting on our stairs wanting to run away or worse. My partner was of no help as this “friend” was more important, we nearly split up. I was alone, 2 kids trying to stay in uni and between them I felt useless and completely isolated. But this friend went to prison for 2 years.
He’s now out of prison and everytime I hear his name, my husband mentions him or I know he’s going to see him I get this awful feeling. I just don’t understand it.
I must say my husband has some amazing friends and it’s only this one that makes me feel like this.
Our kids aren’t allowed around this friend due to the reasons he went to prison (husband’s choice). But my feelings about this friend are coming between us and other friends as they like him.
How can I get past these feelings? It’s a proper gut wrenching feeling.
Sorry for the long message
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