Can I have a private post on the mums advise private chat group please Long st…

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Can I have a private post on the mums advise private chat group please

Long story short, I’m late on my period and getting pregnancy like symptoms..
me and my partner already have a 1.5 year old together.. but he has said that if I turn out the be pregnant he wants me to get an abortion. Knowing full well how against then I am (unless for valid reason) the reason he has given is that we don’t have enough money..
he has a good income, I have a part time income. Yes we have high bills/rent to pay but we still have money left over every week after paying out for everything, and I’m not talking about the odd £20..
All my wages go on my bills and everything needed for our child. He spends all spare money on cigarettes, alcohol, takeaways, stupid amount on food during the day at work, cabs because he’s lazy (doesn’t want to get out of bed on time to get a bus to work!!)
It makes me feel sick that this was his response and he would actually rather get rid of his own child than budget his money? Making me rethink our relationship and wonder whether I actually want to be with someone that thinks that way? And if I turn out to be he could never be a good father to that child that he never wanted in the first place?

What the hell do I do??
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