Can i have a private post on the private mums advice group please? How did you…

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Can i have a private post on the private mums advice group please?

How did you single mums pull through when you first split from your ex partners?
Its very recent for me. I have no friends where i am, literally zero, im in a newish area and all my family have moved so cant move back to where they are. In the day i do ok, i still have my moments of doubt but i get by and at times i think how much more relaxed my home is now but as soon as it hits early evening and things go quiet its a lost battle, i start wanting to text him, start wondering where it went wrong, doubting my descision to end things… It becomes all i can think about for hours and hours. The worst part is knowing that if i struck up a conversation about working on things i know he would get back with me. So when i have doubts its not just a case of “did i make a mistake” its a case of “i could fix things right now and itll all be over.” (although logically i know it wouldnt actually be fixed, it would just feel like it for a night)
I dont have anyone to talk to, he used to be the one i always confided in and now theres nobody. I know in my head im doing the right thing ( although i never had proof of physical cheating i have very good reason to believe he was emotionally cheating, he also completely changed personality and lied non stop, would laugh in my face when i cried, slagged me off to people.)
Its so hard when you spend years with somebody who is always there for you, caring, compassionate and honest and then almost overnight they become your worst nightmare… I wish i knew what happened to him.
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