Can i have a private post please? Basically i broke up with my very violent and…
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Can i have a private post please?
Basically i broke up with my very violent and abusive ex partner 4 months ago and every now and again he phones me of private numbers and gives me a load of abuse i know i shouldnt even answer the phone which im going to stop doing but anyways, he got told that i went out to a friends for the first time in the 3 years my daughters been alive (his daughter aswell but said he wanted nothing to do with her) anyways cause he’s been told i went out to a friends he is now threatening to phone social services on me because i went out and told me he will make up a load of lies to make me out to be a bad mum, ive never had any help of no one ive cared for my daughter by myself and i feel like ive done a pretty good job, all I’m wanting advice on is if he does phone social services and tell them a bunch of lies what will happen the thought of them believing him scares me to death, theres also police records of domestic violence because of the amount of times I’ve had to phone the police for my own safety and my daughters so surely if he did phone them they would know that its just a bitter ex trying to cause trouble, im worried sick cause of the threats and im scared social services will believe all his lies even though it took me 4 years to get out of the abusive relationship and find help 😞
sorry for the long post x
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Unless he has proff he no leg to stand on if he does call most will happen will they will call out and have a chat with u. I wouldn’t worry (hard i know) . He just trying to use phycoligal abuse now
Stop answering the phone to any numbers that aren’t in your contact list. If it’s important they will leave a message. Let him phone social services. They will phone or pay you a quick visit. As long you have nothing to hide you have nothing to worry about with them. You’re allowed a life outside being a Mum so you haven’t done anything wrong. You are living your life without him telling you what you can and can’t do so he’s trying to scare you into still being trapped. Don’t let him.