Can I have a private post please because I know there’s going to be some bashing…
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Can I have a private post please because I know there’s going to be some bashing! Basically me and my OH have picked our LB up from school to be informed by his teacher that he’s had a another child round the throat (choke slammed) I’m mortified!! Barely speaking to my LB I’m so embarrassed by what he’s done. He has apologised to the child and been punished for the rest of the evening no TV no treats even his favourite toys also 10 mins on the naughty step he’s just not bothered by what he’s done. Suppose I’m asking what else can I do to make him realise he’s been naughty he’s 4! And to also add he is into wwe and although I say no more wwe what so ever his dad has told him just for a month! š š
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I wouldn’t say the naughty step is useful long after the incident took place…..a clip round the ear maybe….š….I would be having a chat about respect etc…and taking stuff away that he likes, tablets etc…
Deffo no more WWE. I’ve got a 4 year old too and he likes angry birds and gets aggressive sometimes. He has hit other children and I’ve been so mortified. I think at 4 they dont fully understand whats acceptable and whats not.
why cant you sit him down and talk to him as a small child !!explain why he hasnt to do that and especially make sure he knows wwe is like acting and not real dont really think he should be watching that at 4 anyway ..but thats your choice
Two of my boys were into wwe a few years ago but were NEVER allowed to try the moves out on each other or their dad who also liked wwe but then I’ve never allowed them to play fight anyway as they always get carried away and someone ends up in tears lol they have also been taught from a young age that they are never to lay a finger on anybody else unless in self defence. Allow him to watch wwe but be very clear that it is not acceptable for him to use it on anybody. Id add also that if u and his dad said different things at the same time infront of ur child with watching it etc u will both confuse him especially with his age and really need to work together/talk before punishment is given xx
My son went through a wwe phase last winter and he got quite aggressive when he was play fighting. His phase didn’t last long thankfully.
WWE would be a no from now on if I were you. He’s watching people get cheered on for doing those sorts of things so he’s not going to think it’s wrong to do. I think what you’ve done for punishment is good but maybe talk to your partner about no more WWE xx
I would say he has had enough punishment although what he did was wrong he is still very young my sons school say not to punish at home for what happens in school as his punishment should have taken place in school. I would stop him watching the program and keep explaining about been nice and kind to people x
WWE is not suitable viewing for a 4 year old. He’s too young to fully grasp the concept that it isn’t real and that copying those moves could cause serious harm to someone. Try to find a way to tell him that he can’t repeat what he sees on the TV in real life. I think he’s been punished enough though
Children are only into things that are shown to them. At 4 years old I would definitely not recommended showing him/her wrestling. Try get him in to something else so he forgets bout wwe xxx
My son is 5 and him and his best friend walked out of school to a teacher telling me and his mum that they was wrestling on the carpet. The pair of them have watched WWE and I remember his friends mum telling me his dad play fights wrestling with him (my brother use to do WWE moves on me when I was younger!) boys will he boys! Me and his mum found it hilarious, think its cause we know eachother and know what our boys are like. But the other day my son hit a girl in the face I was mortified!! She was apparently winding him up and he doesn’t like it and never has, no justification for it though! He had his favourite things taken away and a serious talk. He of course apologised to the girl. He’s now been kind thank god! X
He’s 4? And u put him on the ” naughty step” for 10mins r u actually kidding Me? Its a min for there age, & wwe well u asked for it really didnt u!
Ban him from WWE for a month like your partner said and then tell him he’s not to copy the moves. Explain that it’s all fake and they are specially trained to make it look real.
He needs to understand that wwe is not real. If an adult did that in real life they would be in serious trouble with the law. He needs to understand that its for show and entertainment not to be used in real life.
I wouldnt stop him watching it completely. Lots of kids watch it and dont always re-enact it. He just needs to understand the difference.
I’d say that’s all punishment enough he’s only 4! And defo no more WWE xx
I dont think ten minutes is too long,wouldnt do any longer though, a minute for each year is pointless. I would say youve done enough but to definitely not let him watch wrestling as hes gunna carry on thinking its okay. Good luck x
For god sake get a grip he probably didnt mean it nastily