Can I have a private post please? Does anyone ever blame themselves for the wa…

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Can I have a private post please?

Does anyone ever blame themselves for the way their child is acting? My little one has been naughty recently & is constantly playing myself & my husband off against each other (little one is 4 by the way) I’m finding that I’m shouting a lot which I’m trying so hard not to do as I know she will think it’s ok to shout back, I try to talk nicely & quietly but I find myself raising my voice with frustration by the end of the conversation 🙈 my partner just manages to get it all rite & she knows she has him wrapped around her finger which is why she goes to him when mummy tells her off. Today I sent her to her bedroom to calm down & told her if she didn’t then she will go to bed now (6pm) she just kept getting louder & louder and I though I just can’t win why am I battling for her to stop. I’m feeling crap now as I’m wondering if she actually is playing is off against each other or wether I’m the problem & I’m just expecting to much from her for her age. I just feel like I’m struggling to discipline & talk to her, my husband travels for work but works from home maybe one day a week so he’s seeing snippets. I thought she was bad today however he said to me that he thinks her behaviour has got better recently….am I the problem 😞
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