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Can I have a private post please? I don’t even know if anyone will be able to advise me on that but I just need to let it out. I’ve been with my partner 4 years, we’ve got a 5 month old, I moved countries to be with him and it’s been great. But since I’ve had my little girl, I’ve had no sexual urges, I’m literally like a Virgin. I don’t know if it’s because of having a baby or because I’m not attracted to my partner anymore. I do love him but feel like I’m not in love with him anymore. We’re more like friends. He’s an amazing daddy though. Also, worth mentioning, I have depression, anxiety and PND. Any advice? X
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  • Are you on medications for your mental health issues? I personally how much some meds can absolutely murder your sex drive. Talk to your Dr, a medication change may help.
    If you are not medicated, this can also be an issue. One of those awful catch 22 situations.

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  • Hi, as I understand it there are many women who experience a loss of libido after birth of a child. having depression and anxiety can complicate things, but don’t give up. I’d strongly suggest seeing a psychologist to help you work through the underlying issues, as well as talking with your GP about medications that may be available to assist. It will take time, but eventually you’ll pull through the libido issues, and manage your depression and anxiety issues more effectively. Having an understanding and loving partner really helps, as well. Stay strong šŸ™‚

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