Can I have a private post please I don’t no how to make my children listen and i…

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Can I have a private post please I don’t no how to make my children listen and it’s causing so much stress on me iv done reward charts takin thingd not getting treats the lot there good kids at heart most of the time it’s jus the simple things that are really getting me to breaking point theyv started fighting each other resulting in there 1 year old sister bein hurt in the cross fire it’s like they don’t care, they won’t go to sleep even if I turn the lights out put them to bed at 6 read them a story the lot there still arguing at 9.30 or sneaking into the bathroom playing with water a few days ago I found blackcurrant juice in the bathroom half gone when I was asleep thinking they were asleep at night they snook down getting themselves the blackcurrant by climbing on the cupboards and getting it and making themselves a drink but pouring half a cup of blackcurrant in. And pouring it Al around the bathroom if they go to the toilet they mess with water resulting in them nearly flooding the bathroom on nemorous occasions when IV gone up to check what there doin ones 5 ones 7 they use me sorting bathing or feeding my, 1 year old as the chance to trash the place they route through draws helping themselves to my things I keep separate like my diary (ripping the pages out and drawing all over it) even though iv got them a a4 pad and pinching my sharpies even though iv explained that they are fof adults my 7 year olds attitude stinks always answering back when I say would you speak to your teacher like that she said no id get in trouble it’s like they havd no respect I take them out I treat them I have one to one time with them all but tonight iv had it my 5 year old has decided no matter how much paper she has she wants to draw all over my walls my bed my stairs my floors the lot every time iv took thingd away put my foot down not bough the magazine iv promised and explained how naughty it is. Tonight iv gone in and found her drawing on the box that contains my sons ashes. She nos what it is she nos we lost her brother and iv flipped iv took her favourite book and binned it because nothing else seemed to work and I’m so angry she’s really upset about it sayin sorry but I can’t believe after time and time again iv told her to keep away from his ashes and not draw on things she’s done it all over it with a marker pen it’s ruined. Iv had enough iv sent her to bed and Sat crying my eye out in the bath I said would she draw on things on her teachers desk she said no she’d get shouted at how do u get the respect back of your kids I’m goin through such a stressful time bein pregnant and tried and had enough no nasty comments please one sad mummy here
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