Can I have a private post please? I have been following this page and find you …

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Can I have a private post please?
I have been following this page and find you ladies really understanding and helpful. This is my first post.
My husband and I are having issues and we have a one year old boy. He is an amazing dad. My husband has always been a big drinker but it has been getting worse. Before our boy was born he would drink 4 tins of beer the a bottle of wine every night. Some times he would go out and get completely drunk and aggressive. I talked to him about it and and asked if he needed help, he said no and cut down. I then fell pregnant and he got worse again. I had another talk with him about not being able to bring a baby to the family if he drinks like that and he said ok and cut down again for a while but got steadily worse again. The drunkness got worse and the aggression got worse too. At Christmas we went to a family friendly party with the baby and I asked him to not drink so I could have a glass for once. He said he would. However I noticed him get more and more drink so I had to stay sober for the baby. I confronted him, saying I was upset that he did that and he got angry and aggressive towards me again, in front of everyone and in front of the baby! The next morning, I told him what he did and packed my bags and took the baby to my parents with me. All of my friends and family told me to leave him and not marry him(we were due to marry in May). But he swore it would never happen again and begged me to come home. I went back to him saying it was his last chance and would leave if he ever did it again. He stopped drinking altogether and we were really happy for 5 months. In May we married and two weeks later on our honeymoon it happened again. He got so drunk and aggressive to me, he was shouting and swearing at me for no reason, I feel completely heart broken, trapped and embarrassed. I don’t feel like I can tell anyone because I feel so stupid that I believed him. He is appalled at himself and says it won’t happen again but I now don’t trust him. I don’t want to split our family apart but I am so unhappy. I have asked again if he would consider seeing someone for help but he said no. Any advise would be great. Thanks x
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