Can I have a private post please. I have been in my job for nine months and re…

[ad_1]
Can I have a private post please.

I have been in my job for nine months and really love it! The money is good and the hours fit around my kids.

However Iv fallen for someone in my office and I’m a married woman. My husband works long hours evening and all weekend and I have spent 4 years telling him to change his job as I earn more than him and it doesn’t make sense not to have family time (he works for his family). I haven’t had a night out with the girls or even with him in those four years. I understand I am having feelings for this other person because I have been feeling neglected but I feel like I have given my husband so many chances.

I set eyes on this person in my office the first day I started but hardly exchange more than a hello and how are you but I can see his a lovely sweet person with the way he presents himself. He recently moved on to another floor so I hardly see him but I feel like it’s mutual because he stares and makes excuses to come over. I know I am cheating by just thinking about this other person.

I understand I shouldn’t be thinking like this as I’m married. I have told my husband I want to separate I have run out of steam being the breadwinner mother wife and administrator. Hubby got emotional and promised to change but I don’t see it happening. I feel like my life is running away and I’m sat evening after evening alone. I don’t have any family nearby either to help out as I moved to my hubby’s town (his family aren’t supportive)

What should I do peeps? How can I control these feelings? I don’t want to act on these feelings but after nine months it’s getting intense.
[ad_2]

Source