Can I have a private post please I need to no if I’m the one out of order my exe…

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Can I have a private post please I need to no if I’m the one out of order my exes mum is terrible she give me shit every chance I get wether it’s my weight how I look a mess how I’m a rubbish mum how my kids look like scruffs how I treat her son like shit the lot she tells me how she is his mum and nothing and no one will come close she took over with both pregnancy’s and also caused alot of stress kicking of calling me a shif my blaming me for loosing my son the lot I try to have as minimal contact as possible she messaged me giving me a load of crap when I was pregnant with my daughter I finally snapped and said she’s the one with the issue and id had enough so to leave me alone she turned up at my door hammering on it screaming in the street how I’m ugly fat a tramp a shit mum she upset me that much I had a panic attack and ended up in hospital my partner forgive her the day after and then decided to tell me she was coming to the birth and when I said no he said if she’d not there he won’t me either I felt trapped I’d had to give birth to my son who had passed the year before in labour I give in and let her come she moaned winged and called the shots the whole way through labour when my daughter was born she looked at her and walked out and went home didn’t say a word and later told me because she felt nothing towards her! Again I let them build a bond and got accused of hurting my child when she had a hair wrapped round her finger dragging her up because my house was untidy and when my partner walked out a red weeks back she took great pleasure in telling me he doesn’t love me anymore. After all the stuff with my daughter I sat and said to my ex I don’t want anyone involved this time I want it me him and the baby its my last child she then invited his sister to the birth because she couldn’t go. I told him Im not having this I want it to be about us and it done my way this time. We’ve not found out the sex she’s told me shel be able to c it and will no if its a boy or girl and would say my ex decided then the other day to come out with oh why don’t u come to the scan to so u can c it. I couldn’t be doin with the abuse that would come with so I just kept my mouth shut. I got took to hospital and she told him I was absolutely fine when I told her I wasn’t wich resulted in me sag fof two days by myself. Then she sent something wich was her telling my what to do with my daughter to bring her up right. I messaged sayin I don’t need u to tell me I’m trying my best in a shitty situation and I’d appreciate less of the grief I get (she was bein horrible) I got so much abuse back sayin no wonder her son left me I need to get a grip playing games and I was basically embarrassinf because I should no he doesn’t want to be with me (this was nothing about me and him she was jus bein spiteful,) she then started telling me to tel him to go home (he’d 24) and giving me more shit I messaged my ex and he defended her sayin I shouldnt have started in the first place I was a dick and to f off. She then today didn’t turn up for my eldest kids after she’d promised to take them and didn’t let me no. My ex has jus messeged sayin is my mum still OK to come to the scan tomorrow. I put really are u bein serious to wich iv jus had a load of grief of him sayin I shouldnt have said anything in the first place and how she didn’t even say out bad and how this is why he left me because I jus start on him all the time and argue I can’t believe he thinks this is OK and I feel like there both going to turn up tomorrow I obviously would never stop him but am I wrong fof not wanting her there
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