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Can I have a private post please… I’m really struggling on what to do at the m…

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Can I have a private post please… I’m really struggling on what to do at the minute I’ve been with my partner for 2 years and currently 7 months pregnant with our daughter and it’s like I’m doing all this on my own.. he has 4 other children to 2 different mums and since day one I’ve put up with so much agro.. he lived with me and my little boy who has grown really attached to him but he doesn’t seem to take an interest in him only when he wants too.. we are always put last on his priority list he moved out into his own flat 3 weeks ago seen him once in those 3 weeks as he’s always too busy with his mates out drinking hardly even messages me or rings me we can go for days without speaking and I constantly get told he’s struggling with his emotions and mental state.. he’s struggled with his mental state since a couple months into the relationship but refuses to get professional help and just takes himself off for a few weeks to (sort his shit out as he says) but if I question him on certain things I’m the bad person he always puts himself first and he’s not paid a single penny or helped me with anything for our daughter.. he’s very secretive and hides things from me and when I say do you want me to just leave you to get on with your own life on your own as that’s what he’s basically doing it gets turned on me and I’m made do look the bad one.. I recently lost my mum and have badly struggled with coping on loosing her but he was going through a court case at the time so I put my grieving on hold to help him through it and I have had no support from him what so ever if I did show emotion I just got told he can’t deal with them emotions and he would move out for a few days to get away from me.. i just want to hear people’s opinions in what they would do in my situation.. thank you of you take the time to read all of that..
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