Can I have a private post please? It’s not baby related as such but involves th…

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Can I have a private post please?
It’s not baby related as such but involves the kids:
My Inlaws and me have never really gotten along. Me and my partner have been together nearly ten years and have three kids together. My Inlaws always start around Christmas about how they are family and should see them baring in mind they have never been a big part of their life, they try start arguments in fro t of the kids and they only only brought one maybe two birthday presents and no Christmas presents in 5 years. They have left me with anxiety to the point I don’t like going out in case we bump into them (even at work they know if they see them they have to send me upstairs). I recently found out they went into our children’s school to ask about the nativity even tho we have already told them there were no tickets left and again to be honest If they don’t want to know the rest of the time why do they deserve to see something special like that, any sorry for rambling but I just wanted to ask your options on if we should keep trying to cut ties? (I will also point out when they were baby’s we were advised by the health visitors to stay away and they tried calling child care on us who found nothing wrong. They also have never offered to help with school things instead they kept going on holidays.) please be nice and no bashing I’m only asking for your thoughts.
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