Can I have a private post please. My boyfriends sister has posted a picture of …
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Can I have a private post please.
My boyfriends sister has posted a picture of my children on her Facebook page, I was completely fine with it at first until a man commented on it and put “😍😊” at the end of his comment I messaged her and asked if she knew him and she said no so I asked her nicely to remove the photo which has now caused a big argument, she’s has refused to delete the photo as she’s in it so I don’t have a say. My boyfriend has asked her to remove it but she’s still saying no. She’s calling me every name under the sun because I am trying to protect my children. Does anyone have any advice on this? (She has no children of her own)
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Can you reply please.. It is not because it’s a male it is purely the fact that she has people on Facebook who she doesn’t know! I am not a sexist person. At the end of the day I don’t want strangers seeing my children, male or female. I don’t allow strangers to see my kids on my Facebook so how does she have the right to make that decision on her Facebook? As I said male or female I don’t allow it so why should she??
Can you reply please. Just so everyone knows she is a 16 year old girl, my Children are 5 months old, no one was tagged except my partner. She’s already admitted he has her as a friend but she doesn’t know him she only has him as he’s “funny” he’s an older man who’s from Africa and his comment was “so CUTE😍😊”
Can you add a comment please, I tried to report it but it’s just saying I’ve to message her, remove her as a friend or block her
Beat her up? Or take her phone and delete it yourself? 😂 sorry very hormonal pregnant woman here 😂😂🙈
This is MY view. I won’t get offended if someone commented those emojis under a picture of me or my baby. That simply means that they love the picture. But if you asked her to take down the pictures she should because it’s your babies. And protect them from what may I ask? She maybe shares the same view as me but she should take it down.
Yep report the picture. You have every right to ask her to take it down. She had no right to put the picture up without permission from your fella or you first xx
I agree she should take it down as your children are in it and you have asked her to. Could I ask, would you be reacting the same way if it was a woman who had commented? It doesn’t need to be a man or a stranger to have an interest in children.
Things like this really piss me off I’ve been on this situation myself and it made me very angry! Slightly more to it in our case as we don’t put pics of our lo up on fb ourselfs. No one has the right to put up pics of your children without your consent. Why people think they can is beyond me!
Unfortunately if fb won’t take it down and the person won’t either I don’t think there is much you can do. In our case the photo was removed after strong words with the person and they now dont see much of my lo because of the argument it caused.
They are your children so it’s your rules and people should respect that! Hope you get it sorted x
You can report a picture for having a picture of you? Well it being your children I’d say it’s the same. Just report it or put a ugly photo of her on and tag her. I’m sure he won’t be commenting 😍😍on that aha x
My sister in law has never met my child yet stole pictures of him and posted them to her Facebook.
It made me so angry, she’s not in my child’s life because she’s a raving lunatic who caused hell on the day he was born because she couldn’t see him straight away (he was premature and in the neo natal intensive care unit) iv fought tooth and nail to get those pictures taken down yet they’re still there.
Iv called the police and they’ve said there’s nothing legally I could do but they called her and asked her to take them down, she still hasn’t.
I think she enjoys the upset
If she doesn’t know the person and she won’t agree to take the picture down how about she compromises by removing or blocking the person who put the offending emojis up. She shouldn’t mind if it’s someone she doesn’t know x
If u and ur partner report it as did not have permission to have this photo fb should remove it hope it gets removed can’t believe she don’t have no respect 4 u or ur children it wrong if that was my family member there get more than a few harsh words they would also be told they wouldn’t have no contact with them hope it gets removed so many pedos out there it’s not safe x
Reporting it to fb does nothing… I’ve had trolls use my photo whilst saying offensive stuff to me, and I was just advised to block them because it doesn’t break ‘community standards’ 😑😒
I thonl you could be trying to make a mountain out of a mole hill. The person commenting may have done so without even realizing it. Quite easy to err when human. smh
You can report a photo if you have parental responsibility and it’s of a minor, google it as I don’t know exactly what to press but I’ve done it and it was removed x
Report the picture to Facebook!! It could be she has an open Facebook account and any Tom dick or Harry could be looking at this picture! I love Facebook but make sure your sercirty settings are high!! 🙈
Obviously we all want to protect our children but there could be a number of reasons for the emojis, they could be for her not everyone is a peadophile people still do just love babies and love to look at them and think they are cute and just because hes a man it doesn’t mean if he shares that view hes a peadophile maybe instead of asking her to delete it ask her to change the privacy settings but please dont just tar the man a weirdo, I too love to look at all babies
Well if she doesnt know him then remove him from her feiends list? Shes 16 and parents should still be monitoring her social media activity.
Reach a compromise. She can keep the pic up but edit the privacy so only her family and close friends can see it
Rather than ask her to remove picture ask if she can adjust privacy settings maybe…. then strangers can’t view it x
Report it to Facebook and say it’s a photo of your or someone yu know xxx
Are there people tagged in it? To be honest it could just be someone that likes the photo or a friend of a friend that is tagged in it. Just tell her no more pictures on fb
Tell her to take it down no question he might be innocent but to b save take it down endof I would
Ask her to set her Facebook setting g to friend and family only not to the whole web.
If she an it listing to u or your other half I’d speak to her mum
U should def go to your mother in laws, get out the baby book and upload all her embarrassing baby pics! 😈😂