Can I have a private post please? Myself and my partner have been together 3 ye…
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Can I have a private post please?
Myself and my partner have been together 3 years in December, he has a child from a previous relationship, we have 1 child together and another who I had from a previous relationship who’s dad was never around and my partners been there from birth. His child from a previous relationship is an only child and tbh gets everything he wants. He comes to ours every other weekend and stays the full weekend. Whenever he’s here he demands everything and gets brought whatever he wants from his dad and my partner actually lies to my about what he’s brought him! I’m starting to feel that my two children are being pushed out as whenever he’s here they get treated differently! I just want some advise on how to deal with it, as I’ve tried my best and don’t really know what to do anymore. We gave up our bed so he could stay at ours. It’s now got to the point he’s been brought a ps4 and has our tv moved into his bedroom, he helps himself to food and his dad doesn’t say anything! Advice please as it now causes problems between me and my partner as he just doesn’t understand where I’m coming from!!
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Maybe your partner feels guilty that his son only gets to see him twice a month whereas your child and the child you are having will see/sees him everyday? Tbh if i only saw my child once a fortnight id spoil them to death every time. Its no-ones fault, these things happen, Im just trying to suggest a reason why x
Not the kids fault it’s the dad fault done it so the child just does what he’s been allowed to do