Can I have a private post please. Really need some advice in regards to contact…

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Can I have a private post please.
Really need some advice in regards to contact with a child. Basically three weeks ago my ex put his hands on me. Not only in front of my 6 month old daughter but whilst I was on the very bed she lay so nearly on top of her. A week later he then twisted and put his hands on me again. I of course fought back and defended myself as I was stupid enough to allow it the first time I wasn’t going to allow it a second time. I then rang my mother to come and lift me and my daughter as I had had a glass of wine and didn’t want to risk driving. So I have left and removed all of my own and my daughters belongings. Half of which he tried to claim as his own belongings my family bought my daughter. But that’s another thing. Took three weeks for him to make contact to see his daughter and I said we need to sit down and talk about what has happened an lay down my terms of him seeing his daughter as he will of course not be seeing her by himself because I recently found out that he had been answering adds on craigslist to exchange his services for money. He had ever given his own address to these people so basically inviting any tom dick and harry into his home where his daughter lived and his other daughter stays over. Obviously I will not allow my daughter to go to that house. God knows who these strangers are he is giving his address to. They can be anybody. But now he is unwilling to come see his daughter from my house which is all I am offering. He has never really taken a notice to his second daughter. Never made an effort with her but I know he will not back down because his parents will never allow him. He gets them to pull him out of every hole he gets himself into and even if he didn’t want that much contact he would do it cause they make him. He is saying he will go to court but what do I do now. To I make a report to the police and tell the social what has happened to get them to help me. He is an excessive drinker as well. Even putting water in my own wine bottle so he can drink. Spends every penny on it. He has an assault charge already charged against him from his other child’s mother which I thought was bullshit because she and her family have tried to get him done for numerous things because it was a bad break up. Including rape. Which he got found innocent of. But now I don’t know what to believe and don’t feel safe having my daughter near him now he has shown his true colours. I look back on our relationship now after finally taking him off his pedestal and see so many red flags as to his choices and what type of father he Is!! Help
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