Can I have a private post please. Sorry not baby related. So me and my husband a…

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Can I have a private post please.
Sorry not baby related.
So me and my husband always seem to argue all the time over the silliest things. I just feel so helpless and lost right now I don’t know what to do. I’m no Saint but everything I say to him, no matter how I take it, if he doesn’t like it he takes offence like I’m having a go at him and gets all mardy and starts shouting, then we end up arguing cause he winds me up because he’s not listening when I’m saying it wasn’t said like that or ment like that. It’s like I sat something, he gets it in his head and repeats it in a totally different way. I sometimes wonder if my marriage is worth saving, I don’t want to go places together, because he gets mardy and is embarrassing. We can’t even go on holiday without it happening. It’s like his a teenager who’s mum is having a go at him. He will say things like sorry mum or OK mum or even your not my mum, he thinks I shouldn’t have an opinion, things are nothing to do with me he says. I’m so lost, I love him so much but I don’t know what more to do. I just want the arguing over stupid things to stop. There’s so much more to say but I don’t want to make it to long.
I do feel trapped as well because when it’s bad and I feel like I can’t take it anymore I can’t ask him to leave as I wouldn’t be able to work as I’d have no one to look after the children. We work around each other, if he went he could still go on as normal but I’d have to give up my job that I love, loose my independence and struggle to make ends meet.
Please help me find a way to save my marriage 😢😢
Tia
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