Can I have a private post please, where to start I dunno bare with me please, …
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Can I have a private post please, where to start I dunno 😢 bare with me please, I was with my ex for 12 years we broke up in August 2014 i had enough of him, we have a beautiful precious 4year old daughter 5 in October, she is starting school in September, all her short little life her father and his direct family have always said there is something wrong with her, either it be her behavior, her eye sight, just everything about her, since the split it’s constant faults they find in her, she goes to her dads every Sunday for 7 hours and usually if it suits him every second Saturday night till Sunday evening, when she is picked up by me or dad drops her off there is always always something, as in petty stuff she got a tantrum, wouldn’t eat her dinner, crying alot, the list really goes on and on, our daughter is perfectly happy and a normal little girl in my eyes, she has gone through so many test and visits to dis doctor and that Doctor, since been born, her dads wishes, every test has been normal, she hit all her milestones, she has to wear glasses an hse optician recommend, she wore them in the start one year prescribed so far, in my care and my family’s care she is dazed wearing them can’t concentrate properly, can’t walk to the shop without hitting off of a wall or bumping into stuff, but I persevered and kept putting them on, her father’s wishes, well I brought her back to same optician on 6month review and expressed my concern as did my mother but she said no she needs to wear them that’s that, got new prescription for bigger glasses, fitted her in specksavers, she was happy, went to collect the glasses 1 week later and she seemed OK fitted fine by the employees, wore them leaving, ten minutes later she was crying and getting frustrated saying mummy I can’t see nothing with these glasses, I told her she needed to wear them but she said they make her dizzy, so I took them off, same girl can latterly see a sewing pin on the ground without these glasses, her dad has demanded she should be wearing them, but if she’s so upset and out of sorts I can’t put her tru it, I want a second opinion and as I said in start of post, she starts school in September and will get a free test then, so I see no problem waiting for a few more weeks, but dad is not happy, he wants to go private, I can’t afford that and I told him that but he said he will pay he’s half only, he can well afford to pay full test, he lives at home, has over 160.000 yes thousand stashed away in different accounts and is claiming DA from social welfare, everything I buy for my girl that I need help for he has to c receipts I need to tell him before I buy anything, and up to six months ago I was signing a receipt book for 40.00 maintenance weekly, now it’s gone tru the bank, I really have it up to here with him, I rang him this evening saying I need 35.00 towards her school books, and I had to go tru everything I bought for our girl down to a rubber, I told him I spent my last few Euro and can he give me cash tomorrow evening when I drop her down and I will sign receipt, he said nope it’s going tru the bank tomorrow, he is BOI and I’m AIB, it takes 48hours to go tru whatever way he has set it up, so it would be Sunday maybe Monday before I received it, I told him how was I going to provide for our daughter over the weekend , obviously I have enough food and everything for us and my bills are paid every week, but I don’t want an empty purse if our girl wants something from the shop, he is Been a total ass hole, I don’t know how much more I can take from him, all I want is an easy life and him to provide for his daughter I’m not asking a lot, he rarely buys anything for her pjs knickers essentials I buy and don’t ask for anything, when we do go shopping and I pick up one or two things I don’t run back saying I need money for it, I dunno what I’m looking for out of this post really I just needed to get it off my chest, all I want is for him to provide little things for his daughter without it constantly ending in a fight and me crying, PS I’m in a new relationship with 2years we are engaged and expecting a baby in early October, we are very happy, he adores my girl, and always makes sure we are well taken care of financialy, but I hate relying on him to provide for my girl when her dad is well and truly capable of, so sorry about the long post, I’m a mess over my girls dad, he knows how to rise me, I love my girl 100% and would die for her this second, I want everything for her, I just don’t understand has to be so hurtful and spiteful towards me
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