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Can i have a private post please, will be a long one, me and my bf been together…

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Can i have a private post please, will be a long one, me and my bf been together 3 years, i got pregnant first time we slept together it was just casual after that, i didnt want a relationship or anything he did, im 21 he is 29… He has a child with the ex. The ex and him have been a nuisance, at first thwy were still talking, she wasnt happy about us, shes been a problem throughout and so has he so no blame is put all onto her i took his 5year old daughter on at 18 years old, aswell as just finding out i was having a baby too, he cheated on me, carried on talking to his ex and making me out to be crazy when i cronfronted him, i stayed with him (godknows why) but i wanted to try for the sake of my son which was probably selfish, his daughter stays every weekend, she is a pain too but i take it on the chin cause i signed up for it when i got with him, well anyway today she said my mum says she loves you and i found a old letter that said mummy loves daddy, its really really got my back up, only last night i had a breakdown to him about how unhappy and insecure i feel because of it all and not feeling accpted by his family ect because the ex is still close, to me she is the mother of the child that is family,not her. The thibgs she has done not only to the family but to him and others is unforgivable i dont understand why they would even want to be involved with her, but instead of saying dont talk about it to his daughter he just said really in a really sort of happish way, and now ive lost my shit told him i dont wanna be with him ect, i dunno if i have done right or wrong? I just cant get the thought of that is what he has been waiting to hear so he can go back… When we have broke up before he trys to add her on fb, text her, tell his daighter not to tell the mum if we have kissed ect. Please help
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