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Can I have a private post please?
My ex and I have children together and we’ve been split up a while, it’s mostly amicable apart from the odd occurrence and we’re trying to do what’s best for our children. My problem is my boyfriend, been seeing him almost a year now (yet he won’t confirm our relationship to friends/on Facebook/in any way and I only see him once a week but that’s another issue.) My ex and I have started getting on more amicably, there is no chance of reconciliation, but sometimes we do stuff together with the children e.g. a day out, there’s nothing untoward and we don’t spend any time together without the kids. I’ve always been open about this, and it’s nice for the kids to see us getting on. My boyfriend has started to have a problem with it, makes mean comments and digs whenever I tell him about an upcoming day out to the point afterwards he will ignore me for a day or so. (Happens only 1-2 times a month, doesn’t interfere with the time I spend with boyfriend etc) the reason we do these days out is because we both don’t have many friends or any family so it’s easier for us both to go together with children. It’s never overnight or holidays etc, just a few hours to a farm or children’s event etc. Is this wrong of me? I don’t hide it from boyfriend, tell him all about it afterwards etc. I know it’s probably not the usual thing for ex’s to do but we think it’s good for kids and they love it. Am I in the wrong?
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