Can i have some advice please. Today my son 11 yrs went out with friends to our …
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Can i have some advice please.
Today my son 11 yrs went out with friends to our local park which isn’t very far from us.
On returning he has had sticks and stones thrown at him dog food and then been punched in the cheek/face which has made his tooth chip and gum bleed.
I’ve messaged the other mum’s saying I’ve told my son to stay away and could they do the same please. I also explained what my son has told me. Now the other boys are saying that he did it to himself. Why would my son do this and he is also saying that another boy was there and seen everything.
These boys are friends then break up but they always seem to target my son . Now I know I may sound like my son can do no wrong but I know he can cos he hits and shouts at his younger sisters. Which I’ve told him not too even taken his games off him but nothing seems to work.
I’ve given him opportunity to tell me what’s upsetting him but he doesn’t open up. I’m stuck what to do next please help xx
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All children fight with their siblings, it doesn’t mean they will fight with other children. I would hazard a guess that these children are bullying your son and your son doesn’t feel that you are protecting him or on his side because you believe the other children. Physical bullying is an escalation which would mean that this has probably been going on for some time, speak to his school, they may be able to get him to open up xx
I would call the police then contact school it doesnt matter if your son is an angel at home or not bullying is bullying and thry need to be held acountable for their actions. I can bet if your son did this to them you would have their mums banging on your door kicking off. I hope your little boy is ok xx
From experience of bullying and assault sometimes it’s so much easier to speak to someone you don’t know, because they don’t know you or your past, I would personally get in contact with the school tell them the issue see if they have a counsellor at the school he can talk to? Inform the school of what’s happened, and maybe get police involved as it is a form of assault, I know from first hand experience how hard it is and how hard it is to talk to family as it upsets you I didn’t leave the house for about 3 months after my attack if he ever wanted to talk to someone over the phone or message please let me know, it gets easier x
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