Can u please post this anonymously for me? What would u do? Your baby’s dad only…
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Can u please post this anonymously for me?
What would u do? Your baby’s dad only sees her once a month – 6 wks (his choice). When he dus make the effort my LG screams when I pass her over to him and doesn’t want to go as she doesn’t have good relationship with him due to the lack of visits. She clearly doesn’t know him. She is 19m. She is then distant for a few days after she returns. It’s rly getting me down as I want to do the right thing and encourage relationship with her dad but he doesn’t make an effort and it’s causing her to be so upset. What do I do? 😭😭
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Sorry but I wouldn’t be handing her over!!!! And as the other parent he shouldn’t be causing her distress and shouldn’t want to see her like that. Make him have more regular contact or I’d be refusing to hand her over until something was sorted x
In the long run hun if he doesn’t step up with more contact it’s never going change and she will always be like that.i would tell him he needs to have more regular contact with her if he won’t then I personally think she would be better off not seeing him
I’m in a similar situation, with my 1 year old lg and the way she cries sometimes around her Dad. She used to get really upset when he would visit and would scream when he held her. Things had been rocky and partly my fault the visits had been irregular. Anyway I said you need to see her regular so that she gets better, he agreed and for past four months stuck to this. The visits have been weekly at our house with me there. Currently she is getting better with him and things are improving. I know it’s her Dad but if I were in your shoes, I’d say he has to see her more so that she is comfortable with him. Otherwise I wouldn’t let her go. That’s my opinion anyway x