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Could I get a ppp Basically, I left an abusive relationship when I was 3 months…

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Could I get a ppp

Basically, I left an abusive relationship when I was 3 months pregnant. My son is now 17 months so I have been single for a long while. I started talking to someone about 3 weeks ago but we have known of each other for a good year or so. We met up for a first date and it was perfect and I haven’t felt that happy in a long time. He told me I was perfect and he even dropped the love word. We then spoke every day and met up again Friday night. It was my friends anniversary so we all had a night out. I stupidly had too much to drink and the rest is a blur. He went off somewhere for some reason and it’s apparently because another guy kissed me on the cheek. I’m not sure how true this is. So basically I must have mucked up somehow but when I woke the next morning, he’d blocked me on everything. I tried calling him on my house phone to talk things through but with no luck. Then his mum called me, told me she had a long chat with him and he wants nothing to do with me and if I keep trying to get in contact, they’ll call the police. I’m just so distraught and confused and I can’t stop crying. I genuinely thought it was going somewhere and not knowing what an earth has happened is killing me. I know I shouldn’t have such strong feelings after a matter of weeks but this is the first time I’ve felt wanted in so long 😢 all I want to do is speak to him and talk it through

So sorry for the really long post, I just need some advice and kind words

TIA x
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4 thoughts on “Could I get a ppp Basically, I left an abusive relationship when I was 3 months…

  • Wow hun that sounds like a total head F!! So just remember this is totally my opinion and nothing meant to be taken wrongly. He dropped the L word on the first date ……. I’d run you can’t love someone honestly and seriously that quickly he might have known you for a long-time but he doenst really know you (good, bad and ugly lol). Also if you weren’t actually any thing serious why did he get so jealous and go off?? Even if you were a couple the other guy only kissed you on the cheek to me that’s pretty innocent. I don’t mean to be rude but he sounds very immature and tbh a little unhinged to just stop all contact like that. I would take this a lucky escape and move on and dont look back and if he comes creeping around then be polite but nothing more. Xx

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  • As they have said to stop contacting or they will call the police I wouldn’t contact him anymore or it could be classed as harassment no matter how wrong his reason for stopping contact etc, I’d move on love

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