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Could I get a private post please So my relationship with my fiancé is now on t…

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Could I get a private post please

So my relationship with my fiancé is now on the rocks, despite doing everything I can to save our relationship it’s not worked as all he does is sit at his computer 24/7, never bothers with our child or me. Last night it all came to blows as I do all the housework and look after our daughter and he turned to me saying I do f all that he cleans all weekend and his parents have our daughter.
His parents see our daughter 1 time every 2 weeks for an hour and that’s their choice, his cleaning is basically just going over the counters with a damp cloth an hour after I’ve done them 🙄

Anyway he’s working away this weekend so I’m taking the time to help my mum clear out my old room so I can move back in with my baby girl, her room is already done up from her having sleep overs.

Everything in the house I own with my fiancé 90% of everything in there came from me including the flooring and the wallpapering. He only brought a small half full of things.
So obviously I’ll be taking everything minus the carpets and the wallpaper as I cba to tear it all down and off.

I bought all my daughters furniture, clothes Ect not one thing bought by my fiancé or his family, everything is from me and a few bits from my family.

Well now my fiancé is saying he’s going to take me to court for sole custody of our daughter.
I’ve done research as I’m her primary parent and it all says main custody goes to the primary parent that looks after the child day to day (feeding, clothing, doctors, dentist, washing, days out, emotion and physical contact of at lease 95%).
Well I do everything for my daughter, feed her , wash her , change her , take her out, take her to the doctors and dentist, does her nap time and night routines. You name it I do it all.
My fiancé hasn’t changed a nappy since she was 2 months old or even gets on the floor to play with her! She now doesn’t like going to her dad because he always tells her off when she’s playing with her toys.

Am I right in thinking a court won’t give him full custody. In all honesty I don’t really want him even getting an hours time with her as when he does currently he just makes her cry all the time which breaks my heart and now she hides behind my legs when she’s meant to go to have daddy time which I’ve stopped taking her for. If her dad wants her he can come into the other room and get her now but within minutes she will be either running back or screaming for me.

From everything online I should get main care and he gets access but he wants full custody but I can’t see a court giving him that
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