Could I have a post please? Basically I found out I was pregnant again just 3 mo…
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Could I have a post please? Basically I found out I was pregnant again just 3 months after having my first. We live in a one bedroom flat and I’m currently bidding for houses anyway and coming close to getting one. My boyfriend wants me to get an abortion because we’re not “financially stable” as he’s just lost his job, however can easily get another as his uncle has a labouring business which he’s worked for before. We still have everything that we’d need as our little one is still young so we can save everything. I’ve suffered a miscarriage last year before conceiving my baby and what I seen still haunts me to this day. I dropped out of college and everything. However I feel as like if I didn’t get it aborted my boyfriend wouldn’t have a bond with the baby because he didn’t want it anyway?💔 can somebody please help. I don’t want one because I know what I’ll have to see and I KNOW I’ll regret it for the rest of my life, however I understand the current circumstances aren’t great, yet they can change.
Basically what I’m asking is what the hell do I do?😭
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You clearly do not want an ablrtion. If you had one to keep your boyfriend happy you will end up resenting him. You know how you feel and have answered your own question when you said you don’t want an abortion and that you will regret it. Good luck with everything x
Don’t abort it! You’ll always have the what ifs etc.
You can adapt and make cut backs, you can change lifestyles etc… go with your heart xx
U will regret having the abortion I’m sure when the new arrival is here he will be deeply in love with the baby x
Don’t abort! your child is your blood they come before your boyfriend.
Let me know if your partner leaves after the abortion. Just saying.