Could I have a post please. Right here goes please bare with me because it is a…

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Could I have a post please.

Right here goes please bare with me because it is a long story.
So just over 1 month ago (feels way longer) my partner and his mum had a argument and a disagreement to witch ended in him protecting me and his son from his mum coming at us with a weapon by pushing her onto the garden so we could get into the car she was perfectly fine after the push and he did not harm her.
So from that day she has told all his family a completely different story as to what happened that night and what my partner did so non of his family now are talking to him (he only has a small family so when I mean no one I mean non of them).

He was very close with his middle brother before all of this and even he isn’t talking to him. After it happened they all took him and me off every social media they had us on and we blocked all there numbers as it was all still roar. Then I think it may have been roughly 2 weeks later he decided to call his mum to see what she had to say and try and make a mends with her to witch she just tried to blame him for her actions and her causing the all thing (there is a lot more to the story but I’m trying to cut it short). So the call got him no where she proceeded to text him every now and again asking if he was ok and if he needed her she was there….. she wasn’t there he called her again and same happened again. He then went down to the house to get something of our sons that he needed and his brother threw it at him out of the window and went back inside and said nothing to him. So forward on another week he went down again to get a ticket for something he was going to and he walked int he room where his brother step dad and niece was and he said hello to witch non of them responded to him so he walked into his mum got it and left then a couple of days later he called her again telling him he no longer feels welcome in her home and them not speaking to him to witch she said of there ok they didn’t do that you are welcome etc. She always takes everyone else’s word or side over his.

My thing is I can really Ser how much all of this is talking it out of my partner physically I have never seen him cry in the whole of our 6 year relationship and now he’s crying every week/couple of days because of what is going on he says he can’t believe how they have all turned on him like this and all he wants is his brother and mum back he not bothered about any one else.

Now after call in her a number of times and felling like he’s got no where he is now saying he wants them to make the effort with him cause he’s not, even though I know he is hurting a lot he is now being stubborn and tbh I think his mum is too.
She also had a very good relationship with our son(her grandson) but there no way she can build that relationship back up until hers and her son’s relationship is mended because what happened happened confront of him and also his cousin.
I always had a good relationship with his mum, I’ve not spoken to her since all this but I feel I need to tell her how all this is effecting her son but I don’t know what to say or go about it. Any advise on what to say or do?
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