Could I have a PP please? Long story… I have just found out I am pregnant wit…
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Could I have a PP please? Long story…
I have just found out I am pregnant with my third child (my partners first). I have two children already and I know they’d be so happy when they find out. I am scared to tell them yet as I haven’t told my mum or stepdad. My mum and stepdad aren’t very nice people, they have narcissistic tendencies and are just plain horrible. They don’t like me and hate my partner, I have a voicemail of my own mother saying she wished she had drown me as a child (she didn’t realise she didn’t put the phone down). My mum and stepdad spoil my kids and I think the kids prefer them to me. Today my daughter saw my mum and stepdad in the street and didn’t want to stay with me anymore she wanted to be with them, so I had to walk my crying daughter away from them as we had to go to dance class. My daughter says she doesn’t want to be with me, just her nan and grandad. I think they exploit that as they have previously told me that my kids prefer them; I think they prefer them as they get spoiled and get to do anything they want without any discipline. Lately me and my mum and stepdad are getting into our usual quarterly arguments where my mum and stepdad can get particularly nasty with me, ringing up asking me have my kids had calpol for toothache or stuff; while I do appreciate the concern they do it in such a way as to catch me out or just annoy me. The other night my stepdad came to my house saying I am not a nice person as I have not given them their Christmas card yet; I am nearly 30 and refuse to be reprimanded outside my own home because things aren’t done to their timescale. I know if I told my mum about the baby right now she would be angry and try to turn my children against me even more and make them feel different to the baby once we have it. I have been thinking of going to go to a counselling service with my daughter as it feels like she really doesn’t like me. I’m so hormonal and don’t know what to do 😢
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If that was me, they wouldn’t be having any contact with me or my kids until their attitude and behaviour changed.
I’m sorry but I wouldn’t tell them an I certainly wouldn’t have contact with such people (I’m hormonal as hell currently 4 months pregnant lol) but their behaviour is disgusting an attitude towards you is wrong! None of my parents talk to me like that an they wouldn’t dare tell me about my parenting or condescend to me about it! Hope your okay xx
Why your allowing contact with people like that is actually beyond me
The voicemail would have clinched it!!
Why are you allowing your kids to see someone who said they wished they drowned you as a child? Are you crazy?