Could I have a pp post please? I’m wanting advice on how to deal with in laws….

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Could I have a pp post please?

I’m wanting advice on how to deal with in laws. We’ve had a falling out because I’m not up to their standards basically. They hardly ever visit us we always go to them however when the do come all they do is complain. My daughter is 1 and a messy pup! I’ll be the first to admit my house is messy. It’s not dirty but it’s untidy. There’s always pots in the sink, washing in the basket and my daughter has her entire toy bucket out at once, my in laws don’t like it. They say I have a selfish attitude because the house is messy. They just slag me off basically. I do work part time too, and I do try keep on top of things but it’s not always possible. It’s getting me down and causing problems in my relationship because we argue over what his family say. My family will come round, see there’s washing or pots in the sink etc and they will just do it if it needs doing, his family won’t they will moan and then slag me off to him. He never defends me either he always takes their side. Am I just a lazy cow who needs to suck it up or are they being a tad unfair?

Thanks X
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