Could I have a ppp as we both have friends in this group. In need of some advice…
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Could I have a ppp as we both have friends in this group.
In need of some advice, what makes it hard is that I’m the “advice giver” in my group of friends, and one have them have come to me and I’m stumped for suggestions so maybe yous could help?
My friend has been married to her partner since they where 21. (27-28 now)They have two children.
She’s unsure how she feels about him. She was infatuated with him, and over the first few months she decided she did love him. Things where great but this past year she has shown sides of him she’s not sure she likes.
She owns her own business that does very well and he has a very well paid job which means they’ve never been short of money. The only thing they overly splash out on is holidays. They’re both very humble. But last year they came into a very large sum of cash which she wanted to put aside for her children once they’re older, which he wasn’t happy with. So they decided to use it if needed.
Since then he has become extremely flashy and “up his own back side”
He’s started making remarks to her like “do you have to wear crappy cheap primary clothes”, she replies with “it’s not about cost, it’s about taste and I like it”.Or when she said she would love to go camping with the kids, he remarked “ew what like poor people”.
There’s been many others but these are what have annoyed her most. But the icing on the cake was today. She had been super productive indoors and when he came home she told him all she had done and was proud… His reply was “why can’t you be normal like girls in our financial status and get a cleaner in and spend the time having your hair and nails done so you don’t look so poor all the time”. She stormed out and straight to mine telling me she don’t think she can be with him anymore. She tried talking to him and he laughs at her and waves it off as a joke.
She said he’s becoming worse as time goes on and doesn’t know how to approach him.
I’ve no idea what to say to her and asked if I could post on here to see if someone has any suggestions?
Thanks in advance X
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Get him told just cos ya well to do today, dont mean it couldn’t get taking away tomorrow, n as for cleaner a real family woman likes to do her stuff her self, not depend on someone eals… me I’d tell him to get is head out ov sky or he will no longer have a wife 😊
I’m a bit childish when it comes to things like this and I’d start making remarks about his appreance or if he shaves hide them then tell him he looks a scruff and can he have a shave or just out right tell him to pack his shit and leave if he doesn’t like how I look