Could I have a ppp? Just a post to get something off my chest and maybe listen …
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Could I have a ppp?
Just a post to get something off my chest and maybe listen to what you girls would do.
HELP IM GOING OUT OF MY MIND!
So I’ve been with my partner 3 years. He’s told me since we made our relationship “official” he hasn’t spoken to any other girls. When I was pregnant we had a fall out and he went to his mums. We got back together and I asked him if he had spoken to anyone else. He said no. I’d spoken to someone and told him about this as I thought he should know. Any way the relationship went on. I was on his Facebook and I’ve gone in to archive messages. He’s messaged a girl in that time we had split up. She hasn’t replyed but he’s messaged her saying “hey x” i asked him about it he said he didn’t recall sending it I asked again if they was anyone else again he said no. I found another message saying “what Facebook are you using xx” all rest of convo had been deleted. And I’ve also found a message from a couple of months after we made it official. Full blown convo “meeting me tonight xx” she’s out and he’s like “oh not tonight I’m trying to save up for my own place xx ” I’m just wondering why he is lying about messaging these people and why on earth he is messaging them when he is with me? And why lie about it. Do you think he has done ALOT more than he has let on? My mind is going crazy. I can’t be bothered bringing it up with him as it will just end out as an argument and me being in the wrong as always. What would u girls do???
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Well having been in a similar situation myself I’d say you obviously don’t trust him to keep going through his messages and making yourself even more paranoid, he sounds like been arranging to meet when u out etc, when the trust has gone its not going to work as you will always wonder what he’s up to etc. The fact he’s lying to you about it shows a lack of respect to you also and you deserve more x
Well you clearly don’t trust him to be looking through all his messages, you’re both being dishonest which isn’t exactly a healthy sign of a good relationship.